How to Respond after Receiving Flowers
Receiving flowers can encourage you to stand firm during tough times, or to appreciate being remembered on celebratory occasions. Responding to the sender with gratitude can make him feel appreciated. Put your best foot forward with a timely response to avoid complications.
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Instructions
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Make prompt contact with the sender. This shows your good manners and that you value the gesture. Aim for contact within two to three days of receiving the flowers. Never let flowers wither before expressing thanks to the sender. Exceptions include when you're still "getting well," or grieving over the loss of a loved one. It's acceptable to check in with a quick acknowledgment while you prepare an additional response.
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Choose a contact method based on your relationship with the sender and the occasion for the gift. Respond more formally after receiving sympathy flowers from any sender. In some cases such as birthdays and anniversaries, simply saying thank you to casual friends will suffice. Phone calls, personal visits and email communication may also be appropriate contact methods. Sending a thank-you note is a popular option, as it isn't time-consuming and provides a keepsake for the recipient.
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Write a thank-you note to the sender. Express gratitude for the flowers. Let the sender know how the gesture brightened your day. Comment about the beauty of the flowers and any accompanying components, such as vases and cards. Detailing where you placed the flowers can give the sender even greater satisfaction.
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Think outside the box. Although thank-you notes may be standard when responding after receiving flowers, limiting yourself to this communication isn't necessary. For example, saying thanks by sending return flowers or inviting the sender over for dinner makes your response more memorable and personal.
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Tips & Warnings
Asking a friend to help you respond to sympathy cards can give you the strength to complete the task.
Avoid making your significant other regret buying you flowers. Be sure to say thank you, as failing to do so can leave a bad impression.
