How to become a Sexy woman

We all want to feel and look sexy. It is true beauty is in the eye of the beholder and there are beautiful looking women but are they all sexy? The answer is no. Sexiness and sex appeal are very different from just a pretty face and a nice body. Here are a few suggestions.

Things You'll Need

• Everything below

Instructions

1. Self esteem. Self esteem is when you love yourself, it is when you stand by your own convictions, have your own opinion and will not allow anyone to take you for granted. Some women have low self esteem, they are down on themselves and they need compliments and their ego boosted to feel good about themselves. Self esteem is a woman who is about herself first without lacking empathy or compassion. It is a woman who takes care of herself.

2. Speech. Be articulate and clear. Use proper grammar.
   Someone who uses slang or poor grammar will not be viewed as intelligent. What comes out of your mouth is very important regarding how people view you regarding how well read you are hence how smart you are.

3. Be for other women. Compliment other women, do not bash or down play other women this makes you look petty and catty and that is NOT sexy at all! Men like a woman who is secure enough within herself that she can give credit and kudos and compliment another woman. Remember going against other women is going against yourself too. We woman have gone thru a lot since ages of time, from being shut out, from not being allowed to vote! We need to stick together!

4. Be Kind. Kindness believe it or not is sexy. people are drawn to people who are kind and compassionate. Think about it, would you be taken in by someone cruel and crass or soft and gentle? Giving and being welcoming being kind goes a long way when it comes to being sexy.

5. Initiate sex. Do not always wait for him to make the first move. it's ok for women to love sex too it's sexy. men want a woman who is in touch with her own desires and needs, it's a fact we all want and need to feel good!

6. Eat. Woman who have a healthy appetite also have it some place else, so eat! When going out, not to glom food down but don't go for water and a small salad. Your tummy growing will not be sexy and it's bound to do that if you starve yourself!

7. Independence. I am not talking about being an island, but try not to depend on anyone for money or jobs or to get any where in this world. being independant means you do it, on your own. be motivated, take charge, take risks, do what it takes to rely on your smarts your gut your instincts. be confident and self sufficient, that is sexy!

8. Have a life. Sexy isn't sitting on the sofa all day long or in front of a computer. It's doing things, learning, exploring. Even if it's a pinao class, a dance class, volunteer work, do it! Take what life has to offer, ofcourse what ever intersts you and ya never know, till you try!