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Step 1
Tell your child to use the one friend rule. He should have one friend with them at all times.
Targets are usually caught alone, and helpless, especially when there are several bullies together. Your child needs someone, a friend, with him, whether he's playing in the park, or moving from class to class.
Children that aren't popular, the "outcasts," especially need someone with them. If they have just one friend, that is enough. Bullies find strength in their own numbers. This is not so when the numbers are turned around. -
Step 2
Explain to your child that he should not react, if possible.
When a child is being bullied, the aggressor is looking for a specific reaction. Bullies look for reactions such as shying away, backing down, and fright. Encourage your child to not react, even if he is scared.
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Step 3
Contact the authorities.
The word authority can mean many different things in this situation, depending on the intensity of the problem. At the very least, speak with the school counselor about your child being bullied.
If the aggression is physical, contact your local police department. Have a sit down with an officer, to see what needs to be done. If an officer shows up at a bully's home, he himself is frightened.
On another note, don't contact the parents. Most parents are going to side with their own child. This just aggravates the bully, leaving him free to intensify his crusade. After all, mom believes him. -
Step 4
Keep accurate records.
Although this may seem silly to you, it's useful. Keeping notes on a daily basis allows you, and anyone else, to see a pattern of your child being bullied.
Should something happen, and the bully's actions intensify, you have records. Records serve an important purpose for authorities, allowing them to see the length of time, the action, and other important information.
Be sure to record the time, date, actions, and the reaction of your child.
