How to Know When a Man Is Attracted to You
Although it's impossible to know a man's every thought, assessing his signals can make his intentions clear. Stop obsessing over whether a man is attracted to you and start examining his behavior toward you. While plucking flower petals for the answer may make time pass by, it won't provide the comprehensive answers that careful observation can reveal.
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Instructions
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Notice his reaction when you talk about your personal life. Monitor his responses when you bring up other men. Behaviors such as sneering at your male companions or asking details about your social activities could signal he's attracted to you. Other signs of interest include expressing offense at being left out of your social outings or letting you know how much more fun you would have had if you had invited him to accompany you.
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Pay attention to his body language. Read his non-verbal cues to uncover hidden emotions and true intentions. Positive signs of interest include leaning in close when talking to you or finding ways to touch you during conversations. Holding his body rigidly or withdrawing from your gaze may signal he's not that into you.
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Examine his compliments. Although not every flattering remark you receive is given to express romantic interest, some compliments were conceived with wooing you in mind. Examples include compliments about your figure or those about changes such as new hairstyles. Being compared to famous people he finds attractive is also a dead giveaway he's attracted to you.
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Glance at him throughout the day to see whether he's paying attention to you. Notice whether he brings up information he overheard you talking about with others. For example, slipping in a question about your emotional state after overhearing the information may signal he's attracted to you.
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Test his loyalty to you and your wishes. Check how he responds when you ask him for favors, as a willingness to take care of you is a strong indicator of attraction. Assess whether he goes out of his way to please you. Examples include rushing to visit you between work shifts or canceling commitments with friends to help you complete manual labor.
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Tips & Warnings
Men that are attracted you may find ways to stay in your presence.
Asking his friends about his feelings may produce mixed results. This is especially true if they're jealous of you or if they don't approve of your potential relationship.
