How To Get a Teenager to Clean His Room
All teenagers go through the phase of not wanting to clean their room, but you have to be firm and set your standards of cleanliness. Great communication between you and your teen will set the stage for all of your household rules and regulations. Stressing the importance of organization and chores is an essential part of being a parent. Getting a teenager to clean is no easy task and is an age old problem. Keep in mind that teens go through a phase of messiness, but it's your job to remind them to stay on track.
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Instructions
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State your expectations. Be firm in what you want your teen to accomplish. Let them know that certain things must be done in the home and that those things must be adhered to. Being a pushover can have serious consequences and your teen will have a lack of respect for you because you have allowed them to control the situation.
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Encourage your teen through positive words. It is harder to get your teen to comply with your rules when you are shouting, degrading and insulting them. Good hygiene is a must but you want to encourage them and let them know that you understand that cleaning is not fun; however, it is essential in avoiding bad odors and disorganization.
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Explain the consequences of not keeping a clean room. Let your teen know that all types of bacteria live in dirty places. Talk with your teen about household pests such as bugs, ants and rodents. This should convince them to clean so that an exterminator can be avoided. Discuss the advantages of a clean room as well: time saved in looking for things, a good impression when friends come over, the calming power of order vs. the anxiety of chaos.
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Create a cleaning schedule. Sometimes it is hard for teenagers to remember everything that they have to do so you will need to keep a schedule of when cleaning is should be done. This will help establish organization and a routine.
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Tips & Warnings
Be a good role model; kids learn by what they see. Praise your teen when they clean. Do not bribe your teenager to do what's expected of them. Don't argue with your teenager.
