How to Date a Cancer Man
When it comes to astrology, Cancers are the sentimental nurturers of the zodiac--intuitive, dependable and occasionally crotchety. Even if they display a confident facade, Cancer men tend to be deeply insecure, retreating into solitude whenever the world feels too threatening. Their unwavering loyalty makes them dedicated partners in relationships, but because they're frequently shy and reserved, it can be difficult to coax these astrological crabs out of their shells. Successfully dating a Cancer man involves providing him comfort, security and emotional understanding.
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Initiate phone calls, emails and date plans rather than waiting for your Cancer man to make a move. As a receptive water sign, Cancer prefers a more passive role in relationships; men born under this sign are frequently too shy or insecure to aggressively pursue their love interests and are more comfortable being chased. By instigating activities and conversations, you'll keep the relationship moving forward and reassure him you're genuinely interested.
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Communicate your feelings frequently and sincerely, even when you're experiencing fear or anxiety. Cancer is ruled by the moon, the most emotive celestial body in the zodiac, and Cancer men are driven more by sentiment than by dispassionate thought. They appreciate discussions about feeling. The more emotionally open you are with a Cancer, the stronger the rapport.
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Ask him about his past, including his most cherished moments from childhood, his experiences in school and challenges growing up. Because Cancer is associated with roots and upbringing, men born under this sign possess razor-sharp memories and will gladly spend hours reminiscing. By taking an active interest in a Cancer man's past, you will gently encourage him to open up and trust you.
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Cook a romantic, candlelit dinner. Because Cancers love feeling safe and nurtured, a home-cooked meal in an intimate setting will quell your date's insecurity and help him fully relax. Moreover, because a Cancer man is naturally sentimental, he will probably interpret the meal as a sincere gesture of affection.
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Ask to meet the Cancer man's family. Of all the zodiac signs, Cancer is the most domestic and family-oriented, and men with this sun sign typically maintain strong lifelong bonds with their parents and siblings. Although some zodiac signs become spooked by meet-the-parents plans, a Cancer man will probably be thrilled.
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Give him sentimental gifts, such as framed photographs, heartfelt cards and handmade presents. Cancers need frequent reassurance that they're loved and treasured, and nothing accomplishes this more effectively than meaningful reminders of your devotion. The emotional water nature of Cancer ensures he will take your kind gestures to heart.
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Tips & Warnings
Don't play hard to get. Rather than hooking a Cancer's interest, this would only fuel his insecurity and encourage him to withdraw.
If you want to keep a Cancer man's trust, never belittle his emotions, even if his moods seem unreasonable.
Although a sun sign can be a strong indicator of personality traits, astrology involves other components, such as the moon sign, Venus sign and angular relationships between the planets. You might be able to reach a deeper understanding of your Cancer man by studying additional factors in his horoscope.
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