How to Stop Bullying & Fighting in Junior High
When students reach junior high school, a level of conflict emerges that was formerly absent in elementary school. Cliques begin to form, growth spurts kick in and children discover the power of intimidation. Although the methods of bullying often differ between genders, many of the techniques used to prevent and discourage bullying and fighting in junior high are universal.
Instructions
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Implement a "Bully Awareness Class." Often when children are being bullied, they either don't recognize it or don't know what to do about it. Offer a workshop to students, where they can learn the definition of bullying and be given resources on how to handle a bullying situation.
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Institute a method of dealing with a bullying situation. Once a bully has been called out, either by the bullied child or by another child who has come to his defense, there must be clear guidelines to follow for dealing with the bully. Begin with a warning. Require a class or a report on bullying from the bully. If the situation escalates, detention or suspension might be in order.
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Develop a comprehensive set of rules and regulations for students to follow that forbid all forms of bullying. The rules should prohibit threats, physical aggression, verbal slander and harassment either in person or through written means. Rules should cover behavior outside of class as well because bullying can occur online, after school hours.
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Educate the teachers. Teachers must know what to look for. If a student's grades are failing, or if she seems unusually unhappy, she might be the victim of a bully. Students who are being abused at school are often too scared to speak up. If teachers know what to look for, they can become advocates for frightened students.
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Bring in outside help to prevent violence. Sometimes a serious situation requires a more direct approach. Install security cameras in the hallways. Use a metal detector or security guards to further protect students. Even a dress code can eliminate problems with clothing, including gang colors and money issues.
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Tips & Warnings
Encourage bullied students to engage in activities they show interest in. Success builds confidence, and bullies dislike confidence Provide mediation for students who have continued conflict in an effort to prevent physical altercations.
Never dismiss a child who claims she is being bullied. Every case deserves a full investigation. A child who is brushed off might feel defeated and consequently be more vulnerable to bullies.
