Things You'll Need:
- Your child
- Patience
- Dolls
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Step 1
First, realize that it is important for your child to develop self-help skills in dressing. However, it can be hard to stand and watch your child fumble around for what seems like forever trying to button their own pants when you have other places to be. Work on these skills with your child when you are not rushed for time. You will need to be patient and understanding.
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Step 2
Take your child with you when shopping for their clothes. Let them help you pick out thier wardrobe. They are more likely to cooperate in dress time if they actually like thier clothing.
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Step 3
Provide dolls and other toys for your child that allow them to practice zippering, untying, tying, and fastening buttons. This will help them work on these skills in a fun, unstressful way.
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Step 4
Keep a routine, so your child will know when to expect dress time. For example, always getting dressed after breakfast, taking off shoes for naptime, etc. If they know dress time is coming, they are more likely to behave through it. Also, let them know ahead of time by saying something like "I am going to change your clothes in a few minutes after you are done painting"
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Step 5
Partially help the child with things that are above their skill level. Say "You put your shoes on, and I will tie them for you"
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Step 6
Make sure you explain any requests you make to your child about dressing. "I know you do not want to wear your jacket, but I think it really is too cold to go outside without it"...If they still refuse to listen, offer the alternative. "You can stay inside if you do not want to put your jacket on" or "Would you like to wear your green or blue jacket today?" This will help them feel important.
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Step 7
Eventually, your child will get the hang of dressing. Still, they will have bad days. Offer your help by saying "I know you can put your shirt on all by yourself, but let me help you do it this time. See? The tag goes in the back"
