How to Handle Teen Suicide Threats over Relationships

The teen suicide rate in the United States has sky rocketed since the 1990’s. It is sad that teens feel such pain they believe they have no alternative. More boys commit suicide than do girls, as some boys keep their feelings to themselves. It is shocking that suicide is the eleventh leading cause of death in the United States, and the third leading cause of death in adolescents. There is some concern that teen websites result in teen depression and sometimes suicide when relationships do not work out. Following are steps to take when talking someone out of suicide. Remember, if someone has chosen to tell you about this choice, take on this responsibility with great concern.
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Difficulty: Moderately Easy

Instructions

1. Accept the feelings and take the person seriously,
   Let him talk, and listen carefully.
   Watch body language.

2. Appeal to love of family and friends.
   Give hope. Tell the person that everything passes.
   Appeal to religious faith.

3. Say that you are there for this person and are a phone call away.
   Express your love.
   Discuss getting professional help.

4. 
    
   No more depression

   If you are a friend, tell a close relative and other support people, and do not worry about betraying a confidence.
   Try to ensure that the person is not alone at the height of the suicide crisis. If the teen is at your home and leaves to go home, call the parent immediately about the threat.
   Call the teen hot line in your area.
   If it is an emergency or he has a weapon, 911 may need to be called..

Tips & Warnings

• Love your teen and be supportive
• Be a good listener and give quality time to teen
• Get to know friends and their parents.
• Gradually, give your teen more responsibility and independence
• Give deserved praise
• Give hugs.
• Watch for a teen becoming withdrawn and depressed
• Notice extreme changes in behavior
• Be suspicious if a teen gives away valuable possessions.
• Monitor grades, especially sudden drops
• If a teen jokes about suicide, take the teen seriously
• Watch for problems with relationships that could lead to teen suicide .

Resources

• How to Handle Teen Suicide Threats over Relationships
• Mending a Broken Heart
• Stop a Suicide Today

[fortunate]

on 11/13/2009 Very good article. The subject is very sensitive but handles well. 5*!

[alishacra]

on 10/18/2009 Thanks for the information, especially about validating their feelings.

[autumn1234567]

on 10/16/2009 Suicide is somthing no one should have to face. I hope people in need take your advice. 5*

[alias450]

on 10/13/2009 As a person who had a friend commit suicide at age 21, this article really hits home. I think you've presented the dangers and what people can do to help very well.

[sanderdoe]

on 10/13/2009 Teen suicide threats are real and should be taken seriously. Excellent article! 5*