-
Step 1
Pay attention to whether or not a man is calling you, and also if he's making plans to be with you. If a man is into you, he will call because he wants to talk to you. While there are rare exceptions to this rule, you will generally find that a man who is into you calls you, texts you, or makes some form of contact with you often---at least every other day. Besides talking on the phone, that guy is also interested in spending time with you, so he will plan outings with you and set up dates. Even if it's as simple as the guy asking to take a walk through the park---if he's into you, he will want to see you.
-
Step 2
Check out the guy's body language. According to life123.com, it is an extremely important sign of whether or not a guy is into you. His "facial clues" can also be a good indication, according to the site. If he smiles often and reacts to what you're saying, that means he's listening and focusing on you. The same goes for eye contact. If he's making frequent eye contact with you and not paying attention to everything else around him, that's also a good sign that he's into you. Additionally, evaluating the rest of his body language is important. Take note of whether he looks relaxed when he's with you, or gives off nervous tics such as "rubbing his hands together or bouncing his knee." This can be an indication that you make him uncomfortable, and that he isn't that interested in you.
-
Step 3
If he invites you to a social gathering as an opportunity to introduce you to his family and/or friends, he is definitely into you. This means that he wants to be seen with you and would like for the people that are special to him to know more about you. If he takes you with him to a work-related event where you'll be in contact with his coworkers, this is still a good sign. It is indication that he feels comfortable having you on his arm and that he wants to show you off. He is definitely into you physically and more than likely likes your personality as well.
