How to 's of Anal Sex - Part One - (women) How to Prepare Yourself For Anal Sex

Whether anal sex is something you are interested in trying or something your partner has been asking you to try, this article, and the one or two to follow, will help you both prepare for the incredible orgasms that can be achieved when you "slip in the back, Jack."

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

Instructions

1. I think it would not be completely incorrect or unfair of me to say that most men are interested in having anal sex, and most women are afraid of it. Well, fellas, the good news is: The key word for the ladies is "afraid", NOT disinterested.
   When I was much younger, a very dear friend of mine shyly confided to me that the man she loved wanted her to have anal sex with him. Though she wanted, very much, to please him - and though the thought was equally intriguing to her - she was afraid to let him have a go at it. Why the fear? Because, guys, it can hurt!
   That said, my goal in this, part one of The How To's of Anal Sex, article is to lessen the apprehension of our fearful lovely ladies by telling them, just as I told my friend, how to not only prepare themselves to receive a rear entry but to actually desire it.

2. OK, girls, you ready?
   I want to share a little, possibly unknown, information with you. Did you know that you can have a "G-spot" orgasm by receiving deep anal stimulation? Oooh, honey! Let me tell you; it's definitely do-able, and much easier for you and/or your partner to accomplish anally, than by going in through your vagina and trying to reach all the way up and back to Mr. G's elusive spot.

3. Sure enough; I'm here to testify to you that it's do-able, and IT'S GOOOOOD!! So, when you have some quiet time to yourself, I want you to start by doing these two things. First, go #2. I don't care if you have to take a laxative, give yourself an enema, or sit there all night long ... just go. Go til it's gone. And second, lock the door and get into a nice, hot bath or shower. I, personally, prefer baths, because I can completely relax and recline. You do as you prefer.

4. Now, this step is all about "getting to know yourself".
   Lather up with your favorite body wash, but be careful when washing between your legs. Fragranced, or strong, soaps and body washes can be irritating to your vagina and urethra and can cause discomfort and/or itching and stinging. But back to your luxurious lathering...

5. Let your hands glide over your body. Feel your breasts, massage your clitoris, and reach back to that spot that has you feeling so nervous.
   Touch it, softly first, then firmly. With one hand go back to massaging your clitoris, while touching and pressing into your anus. As you continue stimulating your clitoris and pressing your finger into your "other hole" you will begin to notice that your muscles have loosened and are now opening to allow the insertion of your finger. Don't be afraid. Your finger is small, and this will not cause you any pain. That was your first lesson. You have made yourself comfortable with touching yourself "there" and have learned that stimulating the clitoris actually loosens the anal muscles.
   This is a key point you will need to remember.

6. Now that you are out of the tub, lie down in your nice, warm bed.
   You might like to use some sort of lubricant, or you can simply lick your hand. But, it's time to practice what you learned in the tub. Begin stimulating yourself again by massaging your clitoris. Once you are feeling very excited and are longing for a vaginal insertion, lick one of the fingers on your free hand and begin to insert it into your anus. Continue touching your clitoris as you push your finger all the way in. You can either leave it there, still, as you work your clitoris, or you can pump it, reaching as deeply as possible.

7. This next step is optional.
   Leaving your finger inserted, put two or three fingers of your other hand inside your vagina as you continue rubbing your clitoris. You will feel your anal muscles loosen and tighten, much the way your vaginal muscles do when they are being stimulated and are desiring more.

8. Now you can go for it...
   Massaging your ****, optional fingers in your vagina, and one or two fingers in your ass, keep stimulating your clitoris and probing your anus as deeply as possible. In and out. In and out. Push deep inside yourself, and as you stimulate your clitoris your anus will become very loose.

9. The next step should be obvious to you now. Keep doing these things until you have an orgasm. You will be shocked, and thrilled, as you experience and orgasm that is much stronger and more pleasurable than one that was strictly vaginal.

10. Keep practicing these techniques. The more you get used to anal stimulation the sooner you will be able to experience the real thing and give your man what he's been wanting.

11. Relax and enjoy. There is nothing nasty about sharing pleasure with your loved one.
    So "loosen up"...You're gonna love it!!!

Tips & Warnings

• Remember this: The key to your anal pleasure is going to be in the continued clitoral stimulation. So, whether he stimulates you while he goes "in through the out door" or you stimulate yourself, just remember that "flippin' the bean" is what's going to cause your anal muscles to loosen up and allow entry.

[taboob]

on 10/29/2009 wow.. that's really very hot. I have got very excited. you are very experienced with anal sex, it;s very nice I wish my girlfriend can let me make it with her.
thank you

[fwilliams]

on 10/24/2009 Thank you for this information. i have been scared to try anal sex again because my husband got so excited he got too aggressive and it was painful. I cried!lol but i'm willing to try again after I get myself use to it. Thanks!