How to Easily Ask a Guy Out

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By Natalie Hernandez
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Everyone fears rejection, especially from the opposite sex. Men are often just as afraid to ask a girl out as you may be to ask him out. Even if you are very shy you can ask a guy out in a way that is not so direct. Try one of these super easy ways to ask a guy out.

Difficulty: Easy

Instructions

Step 1

GROUP ACTIVITY -

Invite him to join you for a group activity. For instance a small get together, tailgate party, bonfire, BBQ, etc. Inviting him to a causal group activity is not an actual date-date. Then this gives the two of you a chance to hang out on personal level and see if there is any potential chemistry.
Step 2

ASK FOR HELP -

If you are moving or need some help on a subject he is good at, ask him for some help. Then this gives you a chance to invite him for lunch or coffee afterwords as a thank you.
Step 3

GIVE HIM YOUR NUMBER -

When you meet a cool guy and the two of you seem to hit it off, causally give him your number and tell him it was great to meet him and he should give you a call sometime. This gives him the control of calling you and asking you out if he is interested.
Step 4

WAIT FOR THE PERFECT TIME -

talk to the guy whenever you get a chance and allow the conversation to flow naturally. When an opportunity arises to invite him out, do so. You can make it seem causal and let him take the lead. For instance if he is talking about a place to hang out or a movie he wants to see, tell him we should go. Then wait to see what he says.

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jswana said

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on 10/22/2009 Good advice even though I never have. I'm too scared for that unless I would KNOW that he liked me and wasn't sure how to ask me. But as my doctor told me years ago "women must take control". thanks for sharing. jswana 5*