How to Tell Children about the Birds and the Bees

Sex is an important aspect of being a human. It involves more than a physical act of intercourse with another individual. It also affects the way one feels about themselves as males and females. It also has an impact on some of the choices that are made. This is why I believe it is a great idea for you to speak with your children about sex. I know, for some parents, this can be a complicated time. Children are going to learn about sex somewhere, so it is best that they learn about it from their parents. When is the best time to have this discussion? Well, I believe the best time would be when they hit their preteen/middle school years.

Difficulty: Moderate

Instructions

1. Why Should I Tell My Kids About Sex?
   Talking to your child about sex is important as it will help them develop a healthy attitude towards sex. It is also important to speak with them about it so that they can learn about the responsibilities behind it. When you openly discuss this subject with your children, you will be able to provide them with correct information. If they learn it somewhere else, they may develop the wrong information. Learning it elsewhere might not be a good idea as it might not reflect the personal principles and moral values you wish for your children to follow. In addition to this, they need to understand the consequences behind it. Those consequences include pregnancy, diseases and being hurt.

2. What Should I Tell my Children?
   First of all, you should focus on the facts behind sex. Give them the following:
   An explanation of reproduction and anatomy in females and males
   Sexual intercourse and pregnancy
   Fertility and birth control
   Sexual orientation including bisexuality, homosexuality and heterosexuality
   The emotional and physical aspects of sex
   Self – image and peer pressure

3. Many parents do not feel comfortable with talking to their children about this subject. It may be best for you to practice what you will be saying before you sit down with your daughter or son. Make sure you pay attention and listen. It may help to have both the mother and father for support. Look for opportunities to bring up these issues.

[Stevenfitz]

on 11/8/2009 This should be Interesting....Your turn lol