-
Step 1
Discuss options with the other party involved in your case. More than likely, they too know that court appearances are costly. If you can keep the lines of communication open between parties, you may not even need to go to court.
-
Step 2
Negotiate your conditions with the other party if you are on hospitable terms. This can be done informally, via email or a phone call. Keep your terms reasonable, otherwise talks will fail. Remember that being accommodating will go both ways.
-
Step 3
Attempt to reach a settlement through mediation. A mediator will work with all the parties involved to determine a proper outcome. From there, a mediator will create a legal contract that both parties have approved. This settlement will then be approved by the court.
-
Step 4
Make sure you have all the written agreements formed and processed during the mediation proceedings. Make copies and keep these documents in a safe place. Put them in a lock box or file cabinet where they are easy to access in the future.
-
Step 5
Go to court only if both parties cannot reach a settlement. Remember that court proceeding may be lengthy, attorneys fees are expensive and either party may get the short end of the stick! Emphasize with the other party the importance of a quick settlement through mediation.










