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Step 1
Be realistic. If you're being abused, hurt, cheated on or lied to, it's time to cut your losses and get out.
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Step 2
Think about the future you're creating. If your partner is jealous, obsessive, possessive or overly emotional, consider the extra burden you are carrying in dealing with those behaviors.
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Step 3
Is he a shameless flirt? Is she bossy? demanding? insecure? These are more signs of a rocky road ahead.
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Step 4
Do you truly enjoy each other's company, or do you find yourself relieved whenever you part company? If the latter, it doesn't bode well.
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Step 5
Evaluate your role in maintaining the relationship. If you feel as if you're doing all the work, it's time to talk or walk.
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Step 6
Does he promise to call and then forget? Is she terminally late? Be honest with yourself. Is this what you want?
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Step 7
Do you feel accepted and appreciated? If not, move on.











Comments
olddumass said
on 7/23/2009 I got arrested for a PI thats right public intox in side my house ?the cop called my mother in law who is a 911 opperator and told her to tell me to come out side!I was in shock.what do i do?my mother in law from hell had me arrested and then told her daughter to get out and move in with her and she did! please help me I love her!how can i deal with her? we didn't fight or nothing
olddumass said
on 7/23/2009 she makes threats and then xxxxx i love my women but her mother is from hell what do i do
olddumass said
on 7/23/2009 my mother in law is from hell and a real b
kiratrever said
on 11/1/2008 Ugh, it's never easy. But you make a lot of sense.
scottl said
on 10/21/2008 The 7 steps mentioned above are what I have been searching for months for. I needed answer now I have them, beautifully written