How to Be Sure He is Into You
Meeting and dating someone new is generally a confusing time. While dealing with your own feelings of attraction, you also have to wonder and watch for signs if the other person is interested in you as well. It can be difficult at times to decipher if a guy is stringing you along or if he truly wants to be with you. With a little self-reflection and a watchful eye you can determine if the guy you are interested in is into you.
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Think about how often the guy contacts you and asks you out. If he calls or text messages you often -- such as the next morning following a date -- he is probably into you. If he calls you, it's probably because he wants to hear your voice and to ask when he can see you again. Wanting to be around you definitely means he's into you.
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Ask yourself how much you know about the guy and the people in his life. Has he told you things that he hasn't told anyone else? Does he discuss his aspirations, life goals and dreams? If so, that means that he trusts you, which is a good sign that he's into you.
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Reflect on if you've met his friends and family and if he has met yours. If a guy introduces you to his friends it usually means that he wants to show you off because he's to happy to be with you. If he introduces you to his family it usually means the same thing except on a more serious level. Think about if he wants to meet your friends and family. Wanting to meet the people you are close with usually means he wants to learn more about you and become integrated in your life.
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Consider how well he listens to you. A guy that is into you will make eye contact with you, lean in intimately and listen intently. He will usually also reflect back what you say and respond to keep the conversation going.
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Think about how he touches you. Does he try to hold your hand or put his arm around you? Does he seize opportunities to put your hair behind your ear or to brush your cheek with his hand? When a guy touches you it means that he is comfortable being around you. He most likely will look for reasons and excuses to touch you because it means getting closer to you.
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Consider the favors he does for you and the gifts he buys you. A guy who is into will want to show it. Sending you flowers or buying you other tokens of his affection are all signs that he's into you. He may also do favors for you such as brushing all the snow off your car after a heavy snowfall or bringing you lunch at work.
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