How to Catch Your Mate Cheating

I am going to tell you how to catch your mating cheating. I am talking about catching them red handed in the act.I am going to show you the steps in order to find out if your mate is cheating. This is a very easy process if you have been with your partner for a long time. Sometimes you think that your partner is cheating, but you really don't know. You can wait around until he or she admits they were cheating. Or you have the option to catch them instantly!!!!!

Difficulty: Moderate

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

• Car
• Cell Phone
• Tape Recorder
• Video Recorder

1. If you have been around your mate long enough you should know them. You should know how they react when you ask them question. The easy part about this is all you have to do is to read their body language. Start with asking them a simple question or multiple questions. Remember that you have to do this on a day to day bases. If you listen closely especially on the days that you think that they cheated you will see a change in their body language and the way that they act towards you. So around the time you thought they cheated they will almost reject you or feel they don't want to be bothered with you. Another thing to watch is how they act around people. A good cheater can pretend as if nothing has never happend. This is something you have to watch

2. Not to tell you to be nosy. Look at your spouses text messages when your mate go to sleep or get in the shower. If you have the same phone plan with the same phones, you can listen to their voicemails before they can even see them. You can also get a copy of the phone records and call all of the number from a different phone to find out who he or she has been talking to.

3. 
    
   You have to spy

   Go to a electronic store and purchase a couple of voice recorders. I would get someone to install it under the seat or or in the dashboard of the all vehicles. Turn them on when they are in the shower or ready to leave. Also put a voice recorder in the bedroom and in the living room couch. You can also get a camera installed in the living room.

4. Last but not least you can really catch your mate cheating with this. Say plan to go out of town a day a couple of days before. Let your mate know that you are taking a vaction. See you do this to have your mate set up plans at your house or at the persons house that he or she is cheating with. See what you do is when you leave you change cars with someone. You have to pretend like you are leaving and park somewhere close when you exchange cars. Call them to let he or she know that you have left the town. You have to watch your apartment complex or house from a distance. This may take a while, but you should see something happen if you have patience. If your mate leaves you will have to follow him from a distance with the exchange car. I would advise you to follow them know more information on how far you are away so they can be comfortable because you are not around so you catch them red handed. This is when you call to let he or she know that you are out of town. Then you walk up and confront both of them.
   
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Tips & Warnings

• Install a voice recorder on your lap top and leave it on
• Keep a distance so you can get a good glimpse of everything
• If you don't catch them the first time, I would suggest continuing the same routine
• You can also get your neighbors to help you watch!!
• Don't get caught following because you will blow your cover

Resources

• Guide To Catch Your Mate Cheating

[cheriekuranko]

on 10/26/2009 Thanks for sharing...good tips. I think everyone should pay attention to the little things so they don't get burned when they find out the affair has been going on for years...I hate cheaters. Why not just get a divorce and then go do whatever you want to do? Seems like the easiest, nicest thing to do to someone you once loved and married.

[sneedc]

on 9/24/2009 Seems pretty extreme, but sometimes tough times call for extreme measures; I would say if you feel it in your gut, chances are good your mate is a cheater. I like the recording devices' trick. 5*