Things You'll Need:
- Condoms (female or male)
- Birth control literature
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Step 1
Find a moment to talk to your teen privately in a quiet area. Make sure there are no distractions such as television, radio or phones.
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Step 2
Assure your teen that you are not trying to pry information from her for punishment and you want to have an adult conversation about sex and protection.
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Step 3
If your teen has questions, answer them. The fact that he asks you questions shows trust and a respect for your knowledge. Don't get angry if a question hints toward his own sexual activity.
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Step 4
Explain to your teen that you know kids their age are having sex even if she is not. Explain that while you are not encouraging her to engage in sexual activity, you want her to be safe if she does.
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Step 5
Make sure your teen knows your expectations of him. Your teen may know what sex is and how to prevent diseases and pregnancy. What your teen may not know is how you feel about the subject.
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Step 6
Tell your teen that you have purchased birth control devices for her. Explain how to use the item you purchased, and give it to your teen. Answer any other questions about the device or devices you offered. Most importantly, to maintain trust, keep an open mind.
