How to Find The Love You Want

You know where you want to be, but you have not clue how to get there. You know exactly what you want in life, but what you want is nowhere in sight.
This article will help you get there.

Difficulty: Moderately Easy

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

• Patience
• Understanding
• Forgiveness
• Time to Listen

1. Love is the only thing we need. Love is our peace, our joy, health and wealth. It is also our identity. We go through a relationship looking for love. We have to bring love into the relationship with us.

2. Value, purpose and vision is what love is about. A self respect for ourselves and the other person. Time to listen, time to be listened to.
   Patience and acceptance of ourselves and the other person.

3. People cannot fulfill your needs. You must fulfill them yourself.
   You must respect, love and actually know yourself before entering a healthy relationship. Once you do these things, you can begin to love the person you are with. That person will also respect, love and know you.

Tips & Warnings

• We need God in our relationship. To say we need God in our relationship scares most of us. When we realize God loves us, we stop looking for our partner in life to fulfill these needs.
• Don't ignore your internal alarms, just because you fear being alone.
• Don't confuse kindness for romantic love.
• You should not get caught up in the promises that are never fulfilled.
• You allow blind faith to take you into a relationship that is not healthy for you.
• Never believe that what your partner has done to someone else, he or she will not do to you.