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Step 1
To make a woman love you, start by emanating confidence. It doesn't matter if you don't really have it - fake it! Very little is more attractive than a man who is sure of himself. Now don't be arrogant or full of yourself, just have a commanding presence - hold your head high, walk tall and most of all appear to be in control. There's a fine line between attitude and assurance, but you need to find it. If you have a good career, make that clear (subtly), but do it without bragging. Maybe bring up a conference you're attending (casually), or mention that you must remember to email your assistant in the morning regarding an important meeting. You sound like you've got a life going on and maybe if she's lucky enough, you can eke out some time for her. You will seem interesting and challenging, rare find in a guy. It's not what she's used to seeing. Most guys fall all over themselves just trying to get her to notice them, but not you...you're different.
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Step 2
Give her some compliments, but do so infrequently. You can slip in a "You look terrific" as she gets in the car, then immediately dive into pleasant conversation. Do not stare, gush, or appear overeager ("Wow! You look so hot! I can't believe how lucky I am!" Um, no.) Pretend you are superior, even if you don't really think you are. If she thinks she is, you lose. This all changes once she loves you. Then you can lay it on thick, and she'll love you even more. Actually, that's the only time she'll really appreciate that type of behavior. If you do it before she loves you, she'll run and ditch you faster than you can imagine.
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Step 3
Casually ask her questions about her life, but only if you are honestly interested in the answer. It's very clear when someone is pretending to be interested - not a good situation. If you appear that you really want to know about her, she'll be impressed, and that will make a very healthy impression. You have to be casual, though, and no intimate questions. Otherwise, you'll look like a stalker.
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Step 4
Do not be readily available. If you jump to answer the phone each time she calls, or even worse, you call her five times a day, you seem sad, lonely, and undesirable...desperate even. That is obviously not attractive. Allow her calls to often go to voicemail (then she'll be thrilled when you actually answer!) Wait a little while before returning her calls. If you wait, she will be eager to connect. Give her some time to build you up in her mind - let her dream about seeing you again. She'll get a romantic high, and that will make her love you.
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Step 5
Make sure you go out of your way to give her respect, and tread her like a real lady. This will make her love you. Little things, like helping her out of the car, opening doors for her, even pulling out her chair at dinner - those acts are unbelievably captivating, and sadly, oh so out of the ordinary. You will seem like a true Prince Charming. Now let's be clear, if you only do this, and ignore all of the other steps, it will have the complete opposite effect and she will gag. However, if you are somewhat removed when you act in such a valiant fashion, she will be fascinated, and begin wondering how to catch you.
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Step 6
Keep dating until you are sure this woman loves you. Not only is dating practice, but it also takes up time and will keep her guessing where you are. If you are too easy to get a hold of, you appear desperate. Plus, dating other women will give you a better outlook on life in general, affirming that there are plenty of women out there ready to date should one not work out. It's not wrong to play the field!
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Step 7
After she has fallen in love with you, keep her by being incredibly devoted and her number one fan. Always have a "you and me against the world" attitude, ready to show anyone that cares. She wants to be your best friend, and if you're clearly her most loyal fan, she'll do anything you want.
