How to : Live ALONE, And Like It (after 50)

It's Saturday morning, and the small two bed condo in Pismo Beach, CA, I call home seems cold and empty. My son Nick is gone off to become a pilot, and Rick is in Denver on the radio. It's been over a year now, but having raised them in Phoenix as a single parent since they were six and four, I still miss, the talks, arguments, meals together - late night worries, pizza's, teenagers lounging on my sofa and chairs; talking/laughing. As I head out to view the ocean it hit's me. I miss it all.

Difficulty: Moderately Challenging

Instructions

1. All this happened to me a long time ago. I was nearing 55, single, alone but not lonely with only a Alaskan Husky to keep me company. I'm not whining about it, just telling the facts. Maybe some of you guys find yourself in a raft adrift at sea...just...well...just wondering what the hell is next. No more clattering of dishes; smell of pancakes on the stove; breakfast alone is some fruit juice, coffee, toast.

2. Once in a while you might run into some of your kid's friends who just wave hello - not too close. Those days are gone. BUT, you still have a life, so get on with it and get out of that "empty-nest" syndrome. There's more to life than TV and sports. So, do you mind if I pass on some ideas that really do work? Good! First, you have a job, hopefully.

3. Next thing is to learn how to cook and I'm not just talking about flipping a burger or making oatmeal. Some good meals that women like.
   Clean your car and inside your condo/apt on a regular basis and that means the toilet. That's one thing women will notice. Also, stop hanging out in bars where everyone else is 25 to 35 years old. Join a few clubs, get a drink at a nice country club scene. Go places where people your age hangout. The library is a great place to meet women. Also the beach.

Tips & Warnings

• NOTE: Here is the absolute best approach to a single woman whether it's in a bar, club, sports event, beach - anywhere. Walk over and say: "Excuse me, but I'm really hurting for some intelligent conversation and after looking at you for several minutes, maybe you wouldn't mind if I spend a few minutes just talking and maybe have that drink freshened up." Works every time.

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on 9/6/2009 Terrific advice - Life does not end when the kids leave the nest. 5 stars - thanks!