How to Become a Gentleman With Elegance
Have you ever wanted to become a gentleman and really didn't know how? If so, I have some tips on how you can be a real gentleman.
Instructions
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Never lie, even if it means getting ahead of the competition. Never cheat, even if it means getting ahead of the competition. Other people may not know that you lied and cheated, but you will. Honesty will always pay off in the long run. It is always easier to remember the truth than a lie. A lie comes out different each time you tell it. Truth is constant.
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Congratulate people, even people you don't care for. This is a good way to make friends with everyone. This is difficult on occasion, but get in the habit of doing it. Always use correct and clean language. People respect those who act like gentlemen. Always help in any situation. Each day offers a new opportunity to help someone, take advantage of it.
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Do not stare at the check in a restaurant. You already know a round figure of the total cost. A quick glance of the check is all you need. Smile at your waiter or waitress, no matter how the service was. This could be their bad day. You know what bad days are like, we all have them.
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Listen before you speak. A wise man will listen, weigh what was said, and respond only after considerable thought. Quick to speak is quick to error. Don't be a victim of that. Be punctual whenever you have plans. Anyboby can be late. It doesn't take any preparation to be late. Definite plans must be followed to always be on time.
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Never lose you temper in a touchy situation. This is a hard one, but with practice you can do it. The best way to lose both old and new friends is to lose your temper. Open and close the door for ladies and your friends. This is a small thing, but conveys a strong positive nmessage about you.
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Tips & Warnings
The part about elegance comes in when you are finally a gentleman. Then you can go to your favorite restaurant and order a glass of premium wine.