How to Attract Good Men
Science says that polar opposites attract. Hopefully this saying doesn't apply if you are a good woman looking for a man. Whether you are looking to attract good men to find a mate or to have meaningful relationships, you can boost your chances when you put solid practices into the rotation. Good men may be hard to find and even harder to attract, but knowing where to start will help you to avoid the same loser types you may have dated before.
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Avoid hookup spots. Good men aren't going to hang out in places where they aren't typically going to find good women. Unfortunately this means that the haven for singles, clubs and bars, are at the top of the list of places to avoid. These places are generally devoted to people who are looking for short-term fun and not for serious relationships.
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Refine your appearance. First impressions are important and say a lot about you before you even open your mouth. While you may have sexy curves or a bodacious body that you want to show off with a killer provocative outfit or a miniskirt with fishnet stockings, good men will be turned off by the impression these clothes give. This doesn't mean you have to be completely conservative, but rather you should consider how you present yourself through appearance to display who you are and attract what you want.
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Surround yourself with good people. Even if you happen to bump into a good man who is interested in you, the company you keep can scare him away if they are undesirable. Remember the saying that "birds of a feather flock together" and no matter how trite this may sound, he will be leery of people he feels will sway good habits you show. Try to surround yourself with good friends who share some of your values and morals.
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Question a guy's motives and intentions when you have the opportunity. While you don't want to scare men away with too many questions into deep topics or personal business right off the bat, you will need to learn more about the guys you meet. This will help you to get a better assessment of who they are. Asking why they do things, what their morals and beliefs are and other important topics will let you know where they stand. This will also help you to make a quick assessment without wasting much of your time or their time.
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Stick to your standard. Settling for men you don't want because of the lack of options or the fear of being alone will often lead to worse outcomes than being alone. Have confidence in yourself and your soulmate. Believe that they will reveal themselves to you in time. Meanwhile, don't sully yourself and your reputation or morals by staying with Mr. Right Now instead of waiting for Mr. Right.
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Tips & Warnings
Going to places where you believe good men would frequent such as coffee shops, poetry houses, church, libraries or even the grocery store can help to heighten the rate of good men you meet. This will better your chances of attracting good men to you.
While using online dating sites to find men can be an easy way to eliminate good men from bad men quickly, make sure that you go to reputable sites that don't share your personal information without your permission.
