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Step 1
The FIRST thing to do is to find out if he is interested in YOU!
If you have no friends in common, try flirting a little and see if he acts pleased. Smile warmly, make eye contact, laugh at his jokes, and act pleased to see him when you do see him.
If you DO have friends in common, it is wise to talk to them. Tell them that you like their friend. -
Step 2
Then, you listen.
If you are lucky they will say that he likes you.
Even if he has not spoken about you they will probably tell him that you are interested, and then he will either tell his friends-who are also your friends- if he is interested in you or not.
If they say that he likes you, then you can ask him out with some confidence. -
Step 3
Simply saying “Would you like to go out with me sometime” will often work well. Have a place in mind where you would like to go, so tat you have something to talk about if he says “Yes”.
Right now it is usual, when a girl asks a guy out, for each to pay their share of any expenses.
