Things You'll Need:
- Common sense, his bank statements, his phonebill & his credit card statements.
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Step 1
Take a deep breath. You have doubts about his faithfulness. Do you really want to know? If you do, carry on! If you don't - ask yourself whether you can stop doubting ... You'll probably come back to the conclusion that you want to know.
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Step 2
Most men clear their sent cell phone messages as soon as they send them. Don't even bother with trying to check that. A message can be easily placed out of context and is easily explained. Instead, take a look at his phone bill. Is he sending messages to the same number over and over again? Is he making calls to the same number just before coming home? Except for family and girlfriends - men hardly send messages ... Except to girls, that is.
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Step 3
Check his bank statements. Is he making large withdrawals of cash on the nights out with the boys? If he is just having a casual drink, he won't need that kind of money. There are two reasons for withdrawing large amounts at night: hookers or gambling.
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Step 4
Check his credit card statements. Again, look for large payments. Is he spending money on fancy restaurants that you were never told about?
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Step 5
Check the trash the night after he went out late. Did he throw away any receipts? He might have left them in the jacket he was wearing. You should check what these receipts are for, especially if he has the habit of putting receipts in the pockets of his pants - it means that he knew you would find them when you do the laundry.
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Step 6
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