How to Read Signs of a Cheating Husband
It hurts to think that your husband may be being unfaithful to you. Affairs are especially hurtful and can instantaneously ruin your marriage. In order to know the truth, you must either ask your husband and hope that he is honest with you or just find out yourself. There are several key signs that your husband would display if he were being unfaithful to you.
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Things You'll Need
- Common sense, his bank statements, his phonebill & his credit card statements.
Instructions
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Monitor your husband's behavior. Is he unusually nice to you or suddenly cranky and deceitful? Perhaps he just avoids communicating with you altogether. If your husband has distanced himself from you and suddenly has many late nights at the office, be suspicious; especially if his job has never required late nights before or if he didn't let you know about it earlier.
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Ask your husband to use his cell phone. If he's apprehensive to let you use his phone, he may be hiding something, such as text messages or phone calls from a lover.
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Get in touch with your husband. If your husband usually tells you where he's going, when he'll be back and that he'll call or text message you to let you know he arrived at his destination or that he's on his way home, be concerned when he stops notifying you of his whereabouts. Especially be concerned if he avoids your phone calls or messages, or if your calls go straight to his voicemail. If getting in touch with your husband frequently seems impossible, he may be spending time with someone else.
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Check your Internet browsers to see what your husband does on your computer. If your husband is on the computer late at night instead of spending time with you, check your Internet browsing history to see what websites he's been visiting. A cleared browser history is another sign of cheating, especially if he clears it after each use.
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Listen to your gut. If something just doesn't seem right about your husband, seek the truth. For example, if you husband says he's out golfing with his co-workers every Thursday night, make sure that he dresses the part and actually packs his golf clubs and other golfing accessories in his car. If you're curious to where he's going, show up where he said he'll be to see if his car is there.
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Listen to what other people have to say. If your co-worker said she saw your husband with another woman, don't ignore her. You may not want to believe it, but your co-worker may be right. For example, if your co-worker saw your husband at the grocery store with another woman, ask your husband what he got at the grocery store. If he seems nervous, defensive or denies being at the store, he may have been with someone else.
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Tips & Warnings
Keep in mind that even if your husband displays some signs of cheating, he may not be.
Wait to confront your husband until you have enough evidence. If you don't have enough evidence, he can still persuade you that things are coincidental or not how they seem.
Never confront your husband about cheating in front of your children. This issue is between you and your husband only.
DO NOT read this article if you do not want to know if your husband/boyfriend is cheating on you.
References
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