How to Make a Guy Feel Special: 10 Tips
Everyone wants to feel special to his significant other. Making a guy feel special is all about taking the time to understand him and showing him that he matters to you. The longer your relationship goes on, the more important it becomes not to let the daily grind of life keep you from showing your guy how special he is to you.
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Give him attention. Physical attention is important for guys. Flirt with him and show him that you're attracted to him with gentle touches and kisses.
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Get him a gift or make him something based on a passing conversation you had. Maybe he mentioned that he loves comics or remembers a place that had the best cookies. Get him a little something that shows you were listening.
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Give him time off. The longer your relationship goes on, the more family and friends become a part of your life. If you're constantly running from one event -- birthday parties, weddings, barbeques -- to the next, give him a day to stay home without his feeling guilty. Rent some movies or games and let him have the day to relax while you go off to whatever social engagement is on your calendar.
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Stay home with him. Just say "no" to family and friends who have plans for you for the day, and spend time alone with your guy. Don't worry about feeling guilty for saying "no"; people in a relationship need time alone together.
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Take an active interest in things he's interested in. Ask questions and learn what you can about his interests. You may find that you like something you never thought you would at the same time that you're making him feel special.
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Work with him on his goals. Discuss what he wants out of life and do what you can in your power to help him get to that point. See how your goals and his complement each other and how you can work together to achieve them.
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Take him out to his favorite places. Whether it be a five-star restaurant or a hot-dog stand, take him to his favorite place to eat. There doesn't have to be a special occasion -- just an occasion to show him he's special to you.
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Listen to his point of view. If you disagree, it's easy to ignore what he's saying in favor of "being right." Take the time to understand his point of view, even if you'll never agree.
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Pay attention to his moods. If you notice he comes home from work exhausted and worn out, give him a massage and let him rest. Everyone has stressful days and a relaxing massage will help to ease his tension.
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Love him sincerely and honestly. Show him he's your best friend as well as your lover. Let him know every day how special he is by telling him. Kisses good-bye, kisses hello, and the words "I love you" spoken frequently and often show him how special he is to you.
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