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Step 1
Outfit yourself in a new set of clothes, both formal wear and informal wear. Always appear crisp and sharp since you never know when you'll bump into someone interesting. Looking good will also add to your self-assurance.
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Step 2
Keep hair trimmed and make sure your hygiene and grooming are impeccable at all times. This again will boost your personal self esteem and eliminate reasons NOT to date you.
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Step 3
Make a list of available women who you are interested in and casually let her or one of her friends know that you would like to go out. If you get no feedback, cross that name off your list.
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Step 4
Join several singles groups. Join clubs that suit your interests such as a hiking club, country club, fitness center, literary club, or your company softball league. Taking a class in something that will likely include females, such as art, can also put you in contact some smart and talented women.
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Step 5
Have a ready collection of interesting things to talk about. Write them down and commit them to memory if you're the quite type. Also have some witty sayings ready if you get refused a date. You might chuckle and say, "Well, at least you've got good judgement," or, "OK, maybe in our next life then." Never be rude or angry.
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Step 6
Always send some signals to anyone who is unattached and appealing to you so she will know that you're interested. If you get a smile back or other positive signals, ask for a date then and there. Don't settle for a phone number. GO FOR IT! Have a suggestion ready for when and where you can get together. Make it simple and in a public place, such as meeting for lunch at a trendy restaurant.
