How to Be Attractive
The funny thing about being attractive is that when you ask twenty different people what's attractive you'll get twenty different answers. For the sake of this article, when I say attractive I am not appealing to some anorexic, catwalk ideal, rather I'm talking about maximizing your you-ness, bringing out those quirky, cool and interesting aspects of yourself that make you desirable to others. Does this Spark an idea?
Instructions
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Live life to the fullest. At your best you seize the opportunities that present themselves paying no head to the doubts and the negativity of others. In this way you live in the moment, have no regrets about the past and no worries about the future.
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Conquer self doubt and negativity. At your most attractive you don't waste time being hypercritical of yourself and putting yourself down for your mistakes. You treat your failures as learning experiences and move forward. You know that you have intrinsic worth and have a right to be loved and cherished by others.
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Speak your mind. You are so sexy when you understand that your thoughts and feelings are of value and that by offering them freely you are sharing that worth with others.
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Be active. When you get up, get out and get moving its a major turn on. Not only does exercise keep you fit and trim (purely aesthetic ideals that are beside the point) but it keeps your metabolism up, has beneficial cardio-protective, anti-cancer and anti-aging effects and it keeps you in a good mood.
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Be tuned in to others' needs and desires. At your hottest you are engaged and interested in those around you. People want to be near you because you are giving and understanding. I believe it was Billie Holiday who said that people will not remember what you said or did but how you made them feel.
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Take pride in the way you look. You are hot, it is a pleasure to have you around, people want to be seen with you because you take pride in the way that you look. You don't necessarily sport the most expensive clothes or spend a fortune on lotions and creams, but you care about your hygiene and your dress which signals to others that you are aware of your worth.
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Cultivate your curiosity and love of knowledge. One of your most attractive traits is your curiosity as well as your love of knowledge. This makes conversation with you so satisfying. There are those who try to overwhelm others with their perspectives and points of view, but you are knowledgeable and open-minded; talking to you makes me feel like you are aware of the worth and value of my ideas.
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Treat your body well. Your body is a temple; a cliche perhaps, but you have a healthy glow about you. It's probably the result of the fact that you love your body and it shows. You nourish it with healthy foods and clean water; you protect your skin from the sun and steer clear of artificial ingredients, pesticides and other chemicals. I just want you to know that your efforts make you irresistible.
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Tips & Warnings
Just be you; love, nourish and care for yourself and others and you will find that you are already hotter than hell.
Don't let the media convince you that you need to appeal to some ideal or buy some special product to be attractive. These claims make no sense.
Resources
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