How to Develop a True Friendship

Knowing how to develop a true friendship takes patience and compassion.

True friendship provides a channel of love, trust and fellowship for those involved. Ralph Waldo Emerson gave timely advice when he said "The only way to have a friend is to be one." In order to develop a true friendship you must work hard at giving that person your love and attention. Unlike acquaintances, true friendship do not develop in a single moment, but through a development of shared experiences and moments and common bonds with that person.

Instructions

1. Approach the person you desire to build a friendship with and start a conversation. Exchange contact information with the potential friend at the end of the conversation.

2. Contact your new acquaintance on a semi-regular basis. Show interest in what he says and listen intently.

3. Learn about her likes and dislikes. Share with her you own likes and dislikes. Allow open communication to flow freely.

4. Allow your friend to behave comfortably around you. Once the facade the acquaintances put up begins to fall then a true friendship forms.

5. Show yourself trustworthy. Keep secrets a secret, and offer sound advice during struggles.

6. Stay loyal to your friend. Nothing can replace the value of loyalty in a true friendship. In your friend's best moments, and in his worst, stick by his side.

Tips & Warnings

• If you live close to your friend, arrange times to hang out in person.

• Give ample time to develop a friendship. Practice patience.

• Remember important dates in your friend's life, such as his birthday and anniversary.

• Don't always side with your friend's viewpoint, especially if you disagree. True friendship thrives on two people sharing honestly with one another.

• Do not rely solely on texting or social networking sites to develop and maintain a friendship.

• Regardless of your excitement about a new friendship, do not appear overeager. This may put off the potential friend.

References

• All About God: True Friendship
• Find All Answers: Tips to Develop and Maintain True Friendship