Things You'll Need:
- Make a list of the manipulative behavior that you want to change. Place lines after each like this ___ ___ ___ ___.
- Make a list of the desired results that you would like to receive and make the same lines.
- Make the two list neat enough so they it will last for 28 to 31 days.
- When the subject exhibits the undesirable behavior, place a check mark after that item and do the same with the other list when the subject exhibits desirable behavior.
- Monitor the two list daily and you will be able to track the behavior changes or lack of them.
- Remember the main key is to disengage then exhibit unexpected behavior. If this person desires your companionship they will try to alter their behavior to be congruent with yours.
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Step 1
* Make a list of the manipulative behavior that you want to change. Place lines after each like this ___ ___ ___ ___.
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Step 2
* Make a list of the desired results that you would like to receive and make the same lines.
* Make the two list neat enough so they it will last for 28 to 31 days. -
Step 3
* When the subject exhibits the undesirable behavior, place a check mark after that item and do the same with the other list when the subject exhibits desirable behavior.
* Monitor the two list daily and you will be able to track the behavior changes or lack of them.
* Remember the main key is to disengage then exhibit unexpected behavior. If this person desires your companionship they will try to alter their behavior to be congruent with yours.













Comments
look4writing said
on 10/17/2009 Your forte' may not be Crafts, you certainly ran away with this article. Thanks for info,5s and R l4w
wineglass said
on 8/17/2009 This is a good article but has nothing to do with scrapbooking and crafting which that is our group you joined none of us are manipulators - we are called friends please leave this kind of articles in your personal file. If you want to be in the group we do crafts and scrapbooking. Thank you Kathy the Administrator.
janabanana said
on 8/17/2009 Interesting! Well written!
jnusom said
on 8/13/2009 great article lots of good info
mymind said
on 8/11/2009 Great article, good points, there is a lot of manipulators out there.