Things You'll Need:
- a good dependable jeweler
- an idea of your budget
- a general knowledge of what makes up a diamonds value
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Step 1
Picking out a diamond engagement ring can be a bit nerve wracking. Relax! You've already found the perfect spouse! Here are some helpful tips for now selecting a ring that you'll treasure for a lifetime.
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Step 2
Determining where you'll be buying your ring is the very first step in making an educated purchase. I advise going on a recommendation of a family member or close friend. Many people have worked with the same jeweler for generations. This will bring you the great feeling of knowing you are working with a trusted individual. Some people just enjoy following the tradition, set by older family members, of shopping at a certain location.
If you pick a jeweler on your own, be certain that they are well established in your area and they are willing to spend the time with you that is needed in such an important purchase. Do not rush ... this ring is important and YOU set the pace of the decision you are making. -
Step 3
Before you venture out for such a big purchase ... it's best to know your price range. Not the most romantic tip, I know, but one that will help guide you as you look at all the stunning offerings at your jeweler. Tradition states that a ring should cost two months salary. That's a long held guideline but I think a groom ... and a bride, if they are picking out together ... best know what price figure works in their individual case. This is indeed an investment... but should not cause heartache or despair. Be practical and ask if your jeweler has a payment plan. Many do offer a plan at a low interest rate. Setting up a monthly payment schedule will help you afford the cost of your ideal ring.
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Step 4
Decide which type of ring you prefer: vintage/antique or brand new. Vintage rings are charming and offer amazing quality. Brand new rings are equally as lovely. Both types of rings are very popular and it's your own personal style that comes into play here.
Some couples also elect to bring in a family diamond (such as the diamond of your great grandmother) and have it reset into a new diamond engagement ring. This can be done through your jeweler as well. They will offer ideas to make a family heirloom into the perfect ring for you. -
Step 5
Keep in mind that a diamonds monetary value is determined by the "Four C' s": clarity, color, cut and carat. Diamonds are examined by a jeweler using a professional jewelry loupe (magnifier). By magnifying the diamond, they can see any flaws such as black or white specks, tiny cracks, cloudiness. Please note: These flaws may very well be invisible to the naked eye. Many do not take away from the overall beauty of the ring. It is a very rare ring that is flawless. You need to decide if a flaw has you concerned. Ask your jeweler for help. He or she will know if a tiny flaw is a reason for concern.
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Step 6
Not all diamonds are truly clear in color. A flawed diamond will have an increased yellow tone. Again, in many cases you will not be able to even see if your diamond has a very slight undertone. Ask about the color rating of your diamond.
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Step 7
The size of a diamond is determined in carats. The size of the stone is an important factor in the overall look of the ring... but just one part of determining a rings value. Don't just think a bigger ring should be a more expensive ring. Check the resource section below for links to rings in all price ranges.
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Step 8
Above all, this is about you and your soon to be spouse. Enjoy this moment ... it's priceless!
Comments
pjb1018 said
on 8/22/2009 Good advice. Thanks
patysson said
on 8/11/2009 good article, thanks
monica82 said
on 8/10/2009 I am forwarding this article to my boyfriend!