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Step 1
When you want to talk to girls and be cool, the key is to be casual. Don’t let on that you might have any special attraction for them. Don’t let them control what you do.
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Step 2
Talk to girls about anything that might come up casually. Talk about the party, how they know someone, or where they work. Avoid complimenting her on how hot or attractive she is, this will make you seem tactless and give away your position.
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Step 3
Continue to make conversation when you talk to girls and notice any body language they might use. If they don’t appear interested, move on to bigger and better.
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Step 4
If things are going well in the conversation, consider asking for her cell phone number. Tell her that you plan to use it to hang out again in the future. It might help to make specific plans to meet somewhere for dinner or attend another friend’s party.
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Step 5
Finally keep your cool. When talking to girls the key is to not let on that you like them unless you can see some hints that they might be interested in you.
