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Step 1
Set the tone by setting the mood. Classics never go out of style; candles and a nice bottle of wine will help set the mood for a romantic evening as it has for many others before. Soft music in the background will also add to the romantic atmosphere.
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Step 2
Build anticipation during the day. Leave your love interest a note they will find during the day leading up to your expected romantic night. A phone call to convey "I can't wait for tonight" works as well.
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Step 3
Wear something that conveys that this evening is worth making a special effort with your appearance. Wearing something enticing will also help keep your lover's eyes and thoughts on you and you alone.
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Step 4
Look your romantic interest deep in the eyes during your special night together. This signals that you are comfortable and enjoy their company along with translating your desire.
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Step 5
Be spontaneous. While you want to have a general plan for your night of romance, don't forget the magic of spontaneity. Don't be afraid to be flexible and go with the flow of the moment.
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Step 6
Shut out the world. A romantic night doesn't have to be complicated to be enjoyed. Simply turning off the phones, putting the kids to bed and having an adult conversation can allow for some peaceful time that ushers in romance.
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Step 7
Do something unselfish. Romance can often be spurred on by an unselfish gesture like drawing a bath for your love and waiting for them to invite you in on their own merit. It may not be necessary to throw your coat over a puddle, but an unselfish act of kindness for your beloved scores major points in the romance department.
