How to Get Ordained to Perform Weddings

Get qualified to administer vows

Some couples prefer to have a close friend or family friend administer their wedding vows. You may also want to get ordained so you can perform weddings as a side or primary business. There is no need to undergo extensive or high-cost religious training to get your ordination papers. A few phone calls and an Internet connection will help you achieve your goal.

Instructions

1. Contact the county clerk in the area where you will be performing weddings. Get a list of all the requirements for your state and county.

2. Visit an online ordination site, such as Universal Life Church. Verify that their ordinations are legal and that they supply all the paperwork your county requires.

3. Follow the instructions on the specific ordination site to receive and print your official paperwork. Be aware that some sites require a small fee.

4. Take the papers to the clerk's office and file them as you were instructed on your initial phone call. Visit a notary beforehand if notarization is required.

5. Perform the ceremony as directed by the bride and groom. All vow ceremonies require a declaration of intent to be legally binding, such as the "I do" in traditional vows or even a simple "yes" will suffice. Sign the wedding certificate on the officiant line and return to the couple so the bride and groom can complete filing it.

Tips & Warnings

• Your ordination will allow you to officiate at funerals, too.

• Use only your legal name on your ordination papers, no nicknames.

References

• The Monastery: Wedding Guide

Resources

• Read this Article in Spanish
• Universal Life: Free Ordinations.