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Step 1
The first step is to make sure your partner is ready to try anal play. Assure her that you will be gentle with her and make it as comfortable and painless as possible. As well tell her if at any point she wants to quit you will stop immediately. Also take the time to explain the steps you plan to take to make losing her anal virginity less painful. This will reassure her that you have put thought into her comfort and feelings, thus helping her to relax.
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Step 2
Now that she has agreed to try anal sex with you, you need to make certain you have lots of lubrication. Lubrication is an absolute must with anal sex. One of the best is basic KY jelly. Making sure your member and her anus is well lubricated will definitely make the experience more comfortable for you both.
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Step 3
Be sure to play with her before you try to enter her rear. Rub her clitoris to get her in the mood. Gently rub the area around her anal opening. Once she seems comfortable with this gently insert a finger into her. Very slowly move your finger around. This will get her ready for your cock. *NOTE: Make certain that you nails are clean and neatly trimmed.
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Step 4
When she seems receptive to your finger you can very, very gently begin to insert your cock. Tell her to bare down as if she were having a bowl movement. This will make her more open and your entry less painful. Go very slow and if she whences or seems in pain pause for a moment and give her time to adjust. Once you are all the way in again pause and allow her time to adjust to the fullness. Resist the temptation to rapidly thrust! This is a big NO NO and will quickly get you told to exit!!! Just take small strokes allowing her to become use to your width and depth.
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Step 5
It will help greatly if you talk to her in a soothing voice. Just keep reassuring her that she is doing great and tell her how wonderful it feels. Your words will help her to relax and hopefully before you know she will be into it.








