How to Fly With a Baby or a Toddler

Flying with a baby or toddler can be a daunting task ... especially your first time. But don't let the idea of flying with your little ones keep you from visits and vacations. We started flying with our son when he was 6 months old, and since then he's flown at least a dozen times and each time we learn something new. Just follow these simple steps and flying with your baby or toddler will be a cinch!

Difficulty: Moderate

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

• Bottle or sippy cup filled with milk, juice or formula (if milk or formula, put it in a small cooler, like the ones that EvenFlo makes, with a plastic ice block so it stays fresh)
• If your little one is eating solid foods, a snack size zip lock baggie with raisins, animal crackers, goldfish ... whatever they like.
• Diapers
• Wipes
• Changing pad
• 1 change of clothes for your little one
• A change of clothes for mommy and daddy
• 2 small books
• 2 or 3 toys (ex: lovey, small toy car, doll)
• Thin blanket (receiving blanket)
• iPod/MP3 player
• Stroller

1. Try to plan your trip so that at least one of your flights falls during nap time. It makes the trip easier on everyone and your little one will arrive at your destination happy, not cranky.

2. Pack all of your supplies in your carry-on. I recommend putting the items your most likely to use on the top or in an outside pocket (ex: diapers, wipes, blanket, book, snack, drink, lovey). You can put the change of clothes at the bottom because you're less likely to use those.

3. Arrive at the airport at least 1 1/2 hours before your flight. This might seem excessive, but children can make anything unpredictable and you don't want to miss your flight and have to sit in the airport all day waiting for another one. Also getting through security will take a bit longer because you have more stuff.

4. If your child can walk, a great way to ensure they don't get bored (and wear them out so they'll sleep on the plane), is to have one parent walk around your gate area with them looking at airplanes, people, everything. An airport is a whole new experience for your little one so encourage their exploration (while holding your hand of course). If they can't walk yet but are interested in seeing everything, go for stroller rides. Happy baby = happy flying for everyone.

5. If you've purchased a airplane seat for your child, then you can pack an extra carry-on since each passenger is allowed at least one. If the child will be on your lap, then you can still have 1 carry-on and 1 personal item. I just pack a carry-on bag and bring a big purse to put any "extras" in so I can have 2 bags.

6. Be sure you're going to have a carseat when you land (either in the rental car, grandparents' car, etc...) We've yet to take one on a plane with us. It leaves that extra seat for more play room. So during takeoff and landing, our son sits on our laps. The airline attendants advise you how to properly hold your little one so they'll be safe

7. Give your child their bottle or cup during takeoff and landing to help prevent ear pain from the pressure change.

8. We've always had pleasant flying experiences, but if your child does become restless or starts crying, it's ok. Just stay calm because if you get excited, your child will sense this and it will only escalate the situation. Comfort your child (flying might be scary for them). Try giving the cup/bottle first. If they don't want it then put them on your lap and try reading. That's usually very relaxing for kids. If all else fails, get up and go to the back of the plane and walk in the aisle till they're calm. You'll be very surprised how helpful many other passengers will be (and airline staff). Most everyone has been where you are and will sympathize so don't stress worrying you're bothering others. Just do your best and stay calm :-)

Tips & Warnings

• Your child can be on your lap until age 2, after that airlines require you buy them their own seat. However, you can still have them on your lap after age 2 for takeoff/landing as long as its comfortable for you. Otherwise plan to take a carseat
• Plan at least one leg of your trip during a nap time
• Arrive at the airport at least 1 1/2 hours before your scheduled departure
• Look at online maps of the airports you'll be going through. You can locate restaurants, play areas, and transportation. This will save you the headache of being lost once you arrive.
• You can't plan for every possible event, but you can do your best. Make a list several days in advance so you're sure not to forget anything, ask friends and family for tips, give yourself plenty of time so you're not rushed.
• Enjoy your vacation!!!

[kaldrich88]

on 7/29/2009 great tips on how to fly with a baby or toddler -- thanks! 5*