How to convince your wife / Girlfriend to Try Anal Sex

Most men fantasize about anal sex. For some reason most of society sees it as "tabu". As well most women hear the word anal and immediately associate it with pain. However, anal sex can be a wonderful experience for both partners. The trick is getting her to agree to try anal. Below are a few tips that you may find helpful in leading your lady to the new experience.

Difficulty: Moderate

Instructions

1. The first thing you want to do is talk to her about your anal sex fantasy. Tell her that it is something you really want to try with her and that you think she will enjoy the experience. Let her know that it is really important to you. Most women want to please their man in bed. If she knows it is something you really desire she will at least ponder the idea.

2. Make sure you listen to her concerns and reasoning for not wanting to try it. Assure her that you are aware that it may be a bit painful to her at first but you will do everything you can to make it the least painful as possible. Also remind her that losing anal virginity is a lot like losing vaginal virginity. Though it may be painful the first time but can also feel wonderful in time.

3. Assure her that you will be slow and gentle with her. Tell her in detail how you plan to make it more comfortable for her. Let her know that you plan to use a lot of lubrication and play with her before entering her.

4. Most importantly let her know that if she does agree to this very special request that you will stop immediately if she changes her mind in the middle. Let her know that she always has the option to opt out even if it is in the middle.

5. Rent a porno movie with anal sex. Let her see a woman actually enjoying it. This will show her that it can be fun and enjoyable.

6. Many women take the request of anal sex the wrong way. She may fear that you don't enjoy vaginal sex with her for some reason. Assure her that it is awesome you just want to bring new experiences into the relationship as a way to add extra spice. Sharing a new experience can lead to better love making and satisfaction and a deeper level of intimacy.

[americanmarine]

on 11/16/2009 Thank you eHow! For such great tips. I shall try them right away!

[zahzel]

on 7/27/2009 Well written...Check out my eHow "How To Have Great Sex"
Zahzel