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Step 1
Learn how to read Hebrew (block letters only). Hebrew is written in its own Alphabet and read from right to left. As Orthodox services are conducted solely in Hebrew, you would be lost if unable to at least follow it.
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Step 2
Call the Synagogue and ask them which Siddur (prayer book) they use. Buy it and read through the service you plan to attend. Become familiar with the entire service. For example, if you are planning to attend a Friday night service, you will be reading the Afternoon Service for weekdays and the Kabbalth Shabbath Service. If you plan to attend a Sabbath Morning service, you will be reading the Sabbath Morning Service, the Torah Reading for that week, and then the Additional Service.
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Step 3
Men and women are segregated in the synagogue. In many synagogues, women only attend the Sabbath and Holiday morning services. Call the synagogue or check their web site for the time that the service starts. If you call, ask for any special directions. If there is no “Eruv”, then no one will be carrying.
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Step 4
Leave everything possible at home, including pens, cell phones, change, etc. Do not take notes at a Sabbath or holiday service. Dress conservatively. Men should wear a suit and a yarmalka. Women should wear a dress, skirt and blouse, or a dress suit. Arms should be covered and shirts should be buttoned up.
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Step 5
Come. Find a prayer book. Enjoy. Make mental notes of the questions you have. Stand when the congregation stands and sit when they sit. Someone may notice that you are new and will point to the correct place even when not able to talk.
