How to Not Get Rejected When Meeting Women Online

There are various ways men can meet women online, from signing up on dating sites to randomly meeting them on shared-interest discussion forums. Sometimes a man is deliberately seeking women and sometimes they just happen to find someone who peaks their interest during their usual online routine. There are ways to peak a woman’s interest and there are ways to get rejected after just a few words. Learn how to stop getting rejected by women you meet online.

Difficulty: Easy

Instructions

1. Stand out from the rest. Don’t start a conversation with just a ‘hello’ and expect a woman to come back with a long commentary. Women get lots of ‘hellos’ on the internet. What more do you have to offer? Be interesting. Have something worthwhile or interesting to say, such as, “Hello, I noticed your profile and find your interest in horses to be something I also love. Have you been riding for very long”.

2. End your correspondence with a question. This helps the dialogue to continue. If a woman has even a little interest in you, she’ll be more likely to reply again if you end your message with a question.

3. Go slow and go at the woman’s pace. This shows respect and instills more trust. Any man who moves too fast causes a woman to question what your agenda may be.

4. Don’t use sexual or personal terms. Don’t call women sexy, babe, honey or anything along those lines. That’s too personal for most women coming from a stranger and it makes them feel you are after one thing.

5. Don’t give out your phone number or personal information too soon. Don’t ask for a woman’s phone number or personal information too soon. Giving out too much too soon and before you have gained a level of comfort and trust, makes you look desperate.

6. Don’t ask for nude or risqué photos and don’t send those of your own. A woman who is truly interested in knowing the person you are, wants to know more than what your body looks like. She also wants to know that you want to know what’s inside her head and heart more so than her physique.

7. Be confident, but not arrogant. Don’t boast about your car, your monetary wealth, your high-profile career or your mansion on the hill. Don’t post or send photos with cars or other ‘props’ that appear you are trying to sell yourself through these means.

8. Be truthful always. Lies tend to have a way of coming out, even in text. A woman will remember what you said last week that you are now contradicting this week. Her interest will wane and you’ll possibly lose the opportunity in getting to know her better and meeting in person. Allow women to get to know the real you. If you meet in person and start dating, she’ll see the real you anyway.

[skyedanzer]

on 7/17/2009 I especially liked the tip of be confident but not arrogant. Great tips!

[karileighk]

on 7/16/2009 Going slow is always great :)