How To Prevent Violent Child Behavior
Violence in children is a serious issue that concerns many parents and caregivers alike. Because each child is different, the issues surrounding violent behavior in children can differ as well. However, understanding what makes one child behave violently toward his peers is only a small part of being able to prevent violent child behavior. By approaching the issue holistically, there are many methods that can be used to help diffuse violent behavior before it becomes a problem.
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Minimize exposure to violence in the home. Some studies suggest that overexposure to violent situations can encourage children to act out in the same way. Reducing the exposure your child has to age-inappropriate programming, games and music may help to reduce the risk of violent behavior.
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Teach acceptable means of venting frustrations. Everyone gets upset at times, and children are no exception. Teach your child ways to deal with being upset so that anger and frustration does not have the chance to build up and cause violent behavior. Breathing exercises, or just exercise in general may help to subdue feelings of anger.
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Teach ways to articulate frustrations. Some children act out violently because they cannot verbally express what's bothering them. Teach your child how to verbally express her anger constructively, without resorting to tantrums and violence.
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Be willing to listen. Sometimes, all it takes to diffuse a potentially violent solution is the willingness to listen to what has your child so upset. Take a moment to validate your child's feelings. Let your child know that you understand that he is angry, and invite him to talk about why he is angry and what can be done to help the situation. By doing so, you can help him calm down and realize that violence will not solve the problem.
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Get professional assistance. If you are worried about your child's behavior and don't feel that you can prevent violent behavior on your own, speak with a professional counselor or other behavior specialist. These individuals can help you to formulate a plan to deal with your child's individual needs when it comes to preventing violence.
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Tips & Warnings
Toddlers and younger children may need more help verbalizing their feelings. Go slowly when helping them to calm down. Ratings on games and movies are a helpful guideline, but you should use your best judgment when it comes to the media you allow your child to see.
