How to Teach Your Son To Be A Gentleman

Your boys are growing up they tend to grow faster than the girls. You as a parent want to make sure that your young man will grow up to be a respected young gentleman. Here are some tips that I have to share with you.

Difficulty: Easy

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

• understanding
• good relationship
• raising your child in church
• teaching good values
• good father figure

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   Children need both parents

   Raising children, can be challenging whether we are single parents or have a husband, or a wife to help us. I believe that children need both parents. Sometimes, that may not be the case. We have that one good parent that is there and always there. My hat goes off to you ,who have stayed in there to raise your children no matter what the situation was.

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   Boys learn what they see !

   Teaching our young boys is hard work. You have to really set it straight with them. They can be easily be influenced as well too. A young man should have a male figure that should be a role model. Young boys tend to imitate who they see. A good man will display good fatherly skills to his family. Therefore, the male will, display how to be a good husband ,a good father an d of course a good provider. Boys are not hard to raise, you just have to keep them busy. It's like when we train our daughters how to be good caregivers,mommies,and being good wives. It's what you teach your children. People say that "he won't grow up to be nothing, look at his daddy or momma" this is not always true. The individual can be the total opposite . So let's not stereo type our children.

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   You son maybe gay !

   If you have a child who is gay, they need love too. It is hard to live that type of life and not to be loved by your parents. Not all of us agree on that type of life style. But ,parents, we need to love them unconditionally and give them our support. You have to understand that our young children go through fazes. sometimes, it's their way of life.

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   Being a gentleman

   When teaching, our young men, on how to be a gentleman My vision, as I was a single parent before was to teach my son how I like a man to treat me. By teaching my son on how to let the ladies go first, opening a car door, and keeping himself clean and dress well(he still wears has pants like 4 times bigger and sagging)Well he's only 17 now but, he has the manners and conversation as a gentleman. When your son displays these skills it makes you the parent feel really good. You should, always have good communication with your son. Get on the floor and play a video game. Talk about life, and what his goals are in life. Guide him the best you can. Encourage him and speak of Jesus, to him and pray with him. My son and I the best mom and son around. We have a great relationship and we can talk about anything. Sometimes, my son, would ask me questions that would make my hair curl real tight but, I'd answer him the best that I could. Now he goes to his step dad for info. Well Hope this will help . Be Well!