How to Overcome Indecision
Everybody has periods in their life when they are bombarded with situations and events where they are required to make important decisions. Overwhelmed with stress, easy decisions can seem difficult.
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Things You'll Need
- Paper and pencil
- Common sense
- Information necessary to make an informed decision
- Desire to seek professional help if you feel things are getting out of hand
Instructions
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How To Overcome Indecision
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Asking for someone's advice concerning an important decision is normal. Don't allow other people to force their views on you. It's your decision to make and the advice you ask for from others will be able to guide you, but when it comes to others trying to influence your decision, they may not have your best interests at heart. It's your decision to make. Heed the advice you ask for and distance yourself from others who have their own agenda.
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If you find things getting confused in your head or you feel you can't focus, grab paper and a pen. Write down pros and cons. Consider different view points and the reactions that will occur in response to each. Write down each scenario and try to think of possible repurcussions and how you would be need to react to each one.
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If the decision is going to influence the people around you, take some time and go over all of your options. Ask people you trust for their opinions. If you feel you need additional help, consult a professional (financial, legal or medical). Many will offer a free consultation.
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Making consistent irrational decisions or the inability to focus on small issues may indicate a mental health disorder. If you realize these things are happening, or a family member brings it to your attention, get medical attention immediately. These are symptoms of several mental disorders that require some form of medical attention: bipolar Disorder, depression, Altzheimer's and dementia.
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The decisions that you are required to make can be difficult at times. Base your decisions on what is best for YOU. Look at what you want and what your needs are. If it involves your family, look at the family's needs as a whole. Others may be able to see things you don't, so asking for advice can be a help. In instances where family members are involved, get their opinions and allow them to feel that they are contributing. You may not be able to make everyone happy, but you will be able to do what's best for family.
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Tips & Warnings
Keep an open mind. Know the names of financial, medical or legal professionals in your area.
Seek medical advice if you feel that you are not capable of handling normal situations. Don't allow yourself to be bullied.
