Things You'll Need:
- Will Power
- Determination
- Confidence
- A troubled relationship
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Step 1
Be flexible. If you really want to get back with an ex do not be forceful with your ex, demanding that they move out, or pick their things up by a certain date. Be flexible, be a listener and a sympathizer. Your ex will be surprised when they see this side of you, and it may inspire them to build the lines of communication that were lacking when the breakup came into play.
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Step 2
Show You Strength! You know you have it! It’s right there, that strong confident person. This is not the time to begin begging your ex. This is not the time to start showing up where you know they will be. if you really want to get back with an ex then the idea is to show them that you are just fine without them. This will also give your ex the idea that they are missing you and you are not. It might be time for them to act and try to make an effort to get you back!
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Step 3
Simply be yourself. There was a really good reason for why you and your ex had a relationship to begin with, so go back to being yourself and let your ex remember why they loved you in the first place. This renewed self perception of your own self will surely rub off on your ex as well.












