How to Write a Maid of Honor Toast

So you've been asked to be the maid of honor and as if that didn't carry enough responsibility the bride wants you to make a toast at the reception as well. Don't sweat it, take some deep breaths and embrace the honor.

Difficulty: Easy

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

• note cards
• pen or pencil

1. Give yourself time, don't wait until the night before the big day to prepare your toast. Spend a couple of weeks taking notes and practicing for your moment in the spotlight. Simple and short is best, try not to go over 2 minutes.

2. Begin by thanking the bride and groom (and perhaps, their parents) for allowing you the honor of being a part of their big day.

3. Tell a humorous story, share a special memory, or simply offer a favorite quote or verse that is appropriate to the occasion.

4. Stay calm, relax, just be yourself. Speak slowly and clearly so that you can be heard and understood.

5. In conclusion offer your congratulations and wishes for a prosperous union, don't forget to raise your glass saying "To Rick and Sue".

Tips & Warnings

• Keep your toast simple, try not to go over 2 minutes.
• However, not too short, your toast needs to be at least 3 lines.
• Make a note card, nerves seem to be harsh on ones memory.
• Tell stories that are appropriate, and that others will find humorous, this is not the time for hurt feelings.
• Watch the alcohol intake before your speech, your audience is interested in what you have to say, slurred speech is a turn-off.