How to Be Sexy Without Having Sex

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By Harriette Knight
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To love yourself is sexy.

Being sexy has nothing to do with the act of having sex. Being sexy comes from within and radiates into an attitude that is empowering and enticing. Even when practicing celibacy, you can look good, feel good, and feel sexy.

Difficulty: Easy

Instructions

Step 1

Being sexy comes from a place of complete comfort with your body. Regardless of how you dress or act, if you feel comfortable within your own skin, you can radiate sexiness. To throw your head back and laugh while exposing your neck, is very, very sexy. Run your fingers through your hair, feel how soft your skin is, and honor who you are.
Step 2

Be aware of how you take care of yourself. Taking care of your teeth, skin, and hair is a must whether you are in a relationship or not. For women, put a little make-up on each day even if you aren't going anywhere. This simple act is a message to your subconscious that you value yourself, even if no one else is going to see you. When you pass by a mirror, give yourself a compliment.
Step 3

You can be dressed in jeans and a flannel shirt and still be very sexy. Whatever you feel most comfortable in, wear it! If you are a woman, being sexy allows you to leave a lot to the imagination. Think of Mona Lisa's smile. What was she really thinking? You never know what is going on underneath the surface, in fact, don't save those lacey undergarments for special occasions. Wear them everyday!
Step 4

Men are sexy, too! Good listening skills are sexy. A good sense of humor is sexy. Taking pride in yourself and how you present yourself is sexy. Noticing that someone has taken the time to look good is sexy. Anyone who feels comfortable in their own skin, no matter what they look like, is very sexy.
Step 5

Be smart. Smart is sexy. Know what is going on in the world. Be confident. Confidence exudes sexiness. Smile. Stand tall. Forget what other people may think of you. Being sexy means you got it goin' on!

Comments

godfather25 said

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on 7/31/2009 Very good article.

MichaelJMotta said

on 7/19/2009 Good points Harriette! Wearing sexy clothes can make you sexy IF you're an under 30 female with a killer body hehehe. (just being honest, from a male perspective of course) Other than that temporary situation though, you're absolutely right! Nice job :)