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How to Bring Back a Lost Love

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By iartac
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Who of us hasn't lost a love before we we're ready to let it go? I say few, if any.. Here is a simple ritual to remind them of you, in a simple yet powerful way. Not to force love upon them, but to remind them that it is there to be had, and that you desire it...... A simple ritual, with very complex powers.......

Difficulty: Easy
Instructions

Things You'll Need:

  • A piece of paper
  • A permanent marker
  • A single Red rose (or one of a significant color to your relationship)
  • Moving water, or a Breezy day
  1. Step 1

    The Ritual of the Petal Lost:
    Find a quite place to think. Rid your mind of all thought, all strife, and all negativity.

  2. Step 2

    Think deeply about this love that you wish to return to you. Think about every part of it, good and bad. Now, make a list of the best memories you have of it, things that would have meant something to BOTH of you, nothing selfish, it must be significant to both of you. Then, pick the top three things, and write them upon a piece of paper.

  3. Step 3

    Find a quiet place outside to perform the ritual. A small corner of the yard, a quiet section of the park, a stream or river, any place you can get comfortable where the wind can blow, or the water can flow.

  4. Step 4

    Sit or kneel,the rose, pen and list upon the ground in front of you, and try to empty your mind of all thoughts, except those of your lost love.....For seven heartbeats, think of nothing but them...

  5. Step 5

    Pick up your rose, and while holding it in both hands think of the one you would have back. Think of the good times, and think of the bad times, for even the bad is part of the love. Feel your thoughts penetrate the rose, make it part of the love.Make it the immortal symbol of your undying love...

  6. Step 6

    Take a single petal from the rose, pick it at random, the first you look upon. Gently pull it free of the flower, and lay down the rose keeping only the petal in your hand.

  7. Step 7

    Read to yourself, aloud or in silence, the first memory on upon your list. Read it seven times, putting as much feeling and love into it as you can each time.

  8. Step 8

    Pick up your marker, and upon this petal inscribe the number 1, and as you inscribe it think again of this memory of the love, the first upon your list. Now lay it before you upon the ground.

  9. Step 9

    Pluck a second petal from your rose, and number it 2, as you think of the second memory on your list.Lay it before you upon the ground.

  10. Step 10

    Pick your third and final petal from your rose, and number it 3. Placing within it your third and last memory.

  11. Step 11

    Repeat steps 7 and 8 for the last two petals.

  12. Step 12

    With your three petals numbered and before you upon the ground pick up your rose within both hands and think again of the love that you so deeply miss. Remember every reason, every moment, and say to yourself, aloud or within;
    "I love you"
    "I need you"
    "I Miss you"
    "Come dance with me"
    "Come dance with me"
    "(insert name of your love) Come dance with me"
    Hold this thought for seven heartbeats, then lay down the rose and pick up the petals.

  13. Step 13

    Stand up, and face the direction in which the wind blows, or the water flows, and look boldly forward. Hold up high before you the first petal and say, or think firmly, "Come (name of love), dance with me!"

  14. Step 14

    Hold up your second petal and say, "(name of love), come dance with me!"

  15. Step 15

    Now, with your third petal held high, say, "Come dance with me (name of love)!"

  16. Step 16

    With all three petal in hand cast them away from you so that the wind, or water carries them away and say, "(name of love), I will always dance with thee...."

  17. Step 17

    Turn and walk away, do not look back, or return to this place until your desire has come true, or is forgotten.......

Tips & Warnings
  • Pick a place which you do not HAVE to go for the ritual site, for returning to it until the desire is achieved or forgotten is not an option.
  • It does not have to be a private place, but, you must NOT be interrupted, otherwise you will have to start over again from the 3rd step.
  • Be sure of your true intent, do not fool yourself, for love must be real to be possible, and nothing is created from nothing without paying the price... Equivalent Exchange is the rule.......

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on 8/24/2009 If anyone has performed this please post your comment I'd like to know well it worked

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on 7/4/2009 Thank you so much for this article. Of all of the lost love rituals I have read, I liked this one the most. Thanks again!

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