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Step 1
Are you nagging at your children because they are not doing what they are supposed to be doing? Set one goal at a time. Write it down on a piece of paper on what you want to be done, how and when you want it to be done, and the consequences.
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Step 2
Another way is to use visuals. For example, when I want my sister to clean her room, I cut a picture of a room that is organized and neat, to remind her how her room should look like.
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Step 3
Remember, sugar-coating your words will not bring any results. You have to have direct communication. Your messages should be clear and concise. In addition, use mono-tone to get results.
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Step 4
Once the tasks are done, show gratitude in a loud manner. Make a gesture to show how thankful you are and how much you appreciate him or her for helping out.
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Step 5
If you are nagging at your children to get certain things done and isn't working out, chances are that children sometimes tend to listen to the more disciplinarian figure to get things done.
