How to Prepare a Teenager for Work

Many teenagers think they should not work or are too lazy to work. Mom and dad have been flipping the bills allowing the teens to avoid responsibility. Spoiling young adults does not prepare them for the real world. As parents, part of the parenting goal should be to prepare our children for life. Preparing our teenagers for the real world at a young age is important. I've seen the proof and the statistics first hand.

Difficulty: Easy

Instructions

Things You'll Need:

• A teenager
• Patience

1. Talk with your teen and learn more about what kind of interests they have. Seek out area volunteer programs and insist that they sign up for a program during the summer or after school.
   
   I suggest doing this before they are able to drive.
   It can be a big commitment for the parents but in the long run it is best for the teen.

2. Seek out organizations need volunteers.
   Check with the hospitals. Many hospitals have a "candy stripe" program in place that loves having teens on board.
   
   Check with the boys and girls clubs, the city parks, day camps and senior centers.

3. Once you find a volunteer program, you will need to make a commitment together. You as the adult will be teaching your child that you will be the responsible adult and make sure they get to their destination on time.
   Be that good example and don't allow them to be late.
   Show your teen that you too are committed to their future.

4. Teens learn by seeing. They will be proud of you while you are being proud of them.
   
   Our goal as parents is to prepare these kids for life. By doing volunteer work they will then appreciate the next few years when they are actually getting a pay check!

5. I had my children volunteer at the hospital and they did indeed appreciate the mighty dollar each year after that.
   
   By allowing children to work once they are of age, you are teaching them the facts of life. To budget their money and to work their way through college.
   
   I've seen many kids fail because they never had to work and college was a shock after graduation.
   
   I know first hand how rewarding this procedure has been.
   I highly recommend it!

Tips & Warnings

• Sign a commitment together.
• Dedicate yourself to your teen.
• Don't force them.
• Make sure it is a safe volunteer program.

[trvlarrngr]

on 6/29/2009 Excellent advice. Thanks