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Step 1
The first thing you need to take into account is how long you have been with eachother. Having sex with a stranger is never a good idea. In this day and age with teen pregnancy and std's on a high rise, random sex is never the answer. If you two have not been together very long it is not meant to be.
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Step 2
Sex should only be performed with a loved one. If it is not, then the idea of intercourse has no meaning and is not useful. Before you even talk to the other person about this act of love, be sure you are mature enough for the idea of "making love".
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Step 3
If you have been with your girlfriend/ boyfriend for a long time and are mentally mature enough for the idea of sex, then talk with your partner about if this is their first time or not. If it is not, the std talk should occur. You don't want your first time with eachother to also be a nightmare.
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Step 4
If both of you are ready to take your relationship to the next level then sex is right for you. Don't let sex ruin your relationship with eachother though. Most people think sex is a privilege and not a passionate act. You both must be mentally ready and in love. Sex without love is not necessary.











Comments
lynsuz12 said
on 11/26/2009 It's better to make love not just have sex.
mikes197131 said
on 10/11/2009 Very good advice 5*
saravalor said
on 8/20/2009 Good advice! 5*