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How to Have a Safe Date

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Have a  Safe Date
Have a Safe Date

Eleven simple rules to having a good and safe first date.

Difficulty: Moderately Easy
Instructions

Things You'll Need:

  • Date
  • Great Attitude
  • Great Conversation Topics
  • Social Skills
  1. Step 1

    Research public profiles at social networks, talent communities or public directories.

  2. Step 2

    Set aside one to two hours to socialize.

  3. Step 3

    Meet at populated or popular areas within 30 miles of home/work.

  4. Step 4

    Be on time and call if you are going to be late.

  5. Step 5

    Have planned activities within walking distance. Driving to each place is expensive, time consuming and may be distracting when getting to know someone.

  6. Step 6

    Talk about fun, adventurous, and exciting things that spark an interest.

  7. Step 7

    Have a couple of friends 'pop-up' and suggest a double date.

  8. Step 8

    Always know whose paying and never offer to pay, especially if you were asked.

  9. Step 9

    Carry a stash of bills and/or a debit card on your person.

  10. Step 10

    Do not make any immediate plans for a second date or an engagement party.

  11. Step 11

    If you must write text, read text, talk text and/or make a phone call, excuse yourself and do it privately.

Tips & Warnings
  • 'Leave a great impression (not just a good one).'
  • Save all date notes, emails, text messages and other info. about the date for future reference.
  • Do not divulge personal/private matters under any circumstance.

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pamelaa75 said

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on 8/11/2009 Great article on how to have a good and safe date 5*s

waters said

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on 8/6/2009 Good information on how to have a safe date.

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on 7/22/2009 Great ideas for a great date.

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on 7/1/2009 good and safe dating guidelines indeed!

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on 7/1/2009 5*, these are great tips! I especially like #8, as I have had many friends (much to their surprise) end up paying for a first date because the guy didn't bring money.

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